Guidance

Guidance for Anger.

Anger has been studied more carefully by contemplative traditions than by any modern self-help. Three passages the daily check-in reaches for when someone brings something they are angry about.

“Begin the morning by saying to thyself, I shall meet with the busy-body, the ungrateful, arrogant, deceitful, envious, unsocial. All these things happen to them by reason of their ignorance of what is good and evil... For we are made for co-operation, like feet, like hands, like eyelids.”

Meditations, Book 2 · Stoic

trans. George Long, 1862

“Hatred does not cease by hatred at any time: hatred ceases by love. This is an old rule.”

Dhammapada, Verse 5 · Buddhist

trans. F. Max Müller, 1881

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought: it is founded on our thoughts, it is made up of our thoughts. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him, as the wheel follows the foot of the ox that draws the carriage.”

Dhammapada, Verse 1 · Buddhist

trans. F. Max Müller, 1881

How the daily check-in responds

The app does not tell you your anger is wrong. When you name it, you receive a passage that treats anger as information — something to be understood rather than suppressed. The matched practice is usually small and physical: a pause, a set of breaths, a way of putting the body between the feeling and the next action.

You'll be asked to sign in if you haven't already — the check-in itself takes about a minute.